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Replace your chapstick with glue stick and SHUT UP!

Why do people feel the need to talk about....... what they don't know. If you haven't heard it from me....talking ghetto now...it AINT true and.........please don't insult my intelligence by trying to request me on Facebook just to see whats going on.

I bet we all have said or thought that one time or another. Are people so miserable and bored with their lives, that they love to assume or make up lies about others. Till this day dont understand the satisfaction people get ruining people's character and lives. Before you open your mouth, think carefully about the poison that your about to distribute.

Never felt better

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We should be like children (your heart carries the emotion but your mind stores the images of that emotion.)

Children: forgive and forget and continue on..Adults: maybe forgive but continue with the grudge....thank God for facebook cause at least sitting behind the screen writing subliminal messages you can vent out and hope that person reads what you wrote......so tired of reading posts about real and fake friends..come on we are not in high school...wait at least in high school it was fought out..I'm not condoning that but hey they fought it out..got it out of their system and moved on....i know personally of people who have become great friends after that..but that's a different subject...so like I was saying...when I read those posts it makes me cringe..and wonder...n discovered their is a hidden malicious monster waiting to come out and explode....yes ur writting it n it may appear innocent but yet behind that their is anger, hate, hurt and a revengeful person...you want that person to hurt, you want that person to be hated by others....what makes you any better than them.??....they may have hurt or betrayed you..but why give them the satisfaction and power to burden you....talk it over and don't keep it clean cause ur afraid....let it alll out...yes it's easier said than done..but trust me it can relieve you of so much heavy emotional baggage...from my personal experience..held on to a grudge for over 15 years...its more difficult when its family cause you have to see this person...couldn't swallow the thought of being in the same room..everything they did annoyed me...they smiled or cried...I would say its fake...they would succeed I would be bothered...wanted everyone to dislike them...just couldn't stand the person n wanted the worst for them...even when as far as to thinking if this person passes on, I wouldn't have mind...red flag here folks...that emotion is called HATE......so I started to examine myself...cutting this part short...I realized I had to confront and let go.....n I did..it wasn't the best day of my life but I let it go...I said it like it is n even though we got into a heated arguement...a cleansing and closure was taking place...everytime I opened my mouth to say something that had caused me pain....I felt every crevice, hidden emotion in my heart being pulled out like a needle...n when I thought I was done...my heart/mind would remind me like a slide show..say this...n so I continued......n discovered something so fascinating...your heart carries the emotion but your mind stores the images of that emotion....not only did I speak the pain but relived the moment as my mind remembered it....sooo sorry I went on and on...but present time..I speak to this person occasionally and can honestly say...I am at peace n so r they....so with that said...CONFRONT, let it out and MOVE ON...Facebook is a temporary relief....Smooches!!! Life is too short

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